Oh! He's a narcissist. She's just a narciopath, (I'm not even sure where this one popped up, but I keep hearing it), or a borderline personality disorder. Every other person these days is labelled with being a narcissist or having some other personality disorder. What they probably are in fact is your average garden variety jerk.

Perhaps, they are just noticeably confident and yes, even arrogant, or aloof. This does not make a person a narcissist. Some people are just jerks. They lack self-awareness, they lack common courtesy, and they lack kindness. Yet this still does not make them a narcissist. None of these things makes them a sadistic emotional (and sometimes physical) abuser.

It is indeed a dangerous thing to sit back and make a layman's diagnosis of anyone without a qualified clinical...

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