an irritation, and you are always criticised and walking on eggshells. This is the systematic denigration of everything about you.

Information you have shared about yourself up to this point is now going to be used against you. Any way that you made yourself vulnerable will be used against you. Anything you shared in confidence will soon be on the open market for anyone else to hear, usually with a damning personal twist on the details by the narcissist. Of course, nobody will hear the whole story. Each person will only get a tiny titbit each, so nobody knows what's really going on. Ultimately this is to cause humiliation or to use against you for their own agenda, such as in a divorce or break up etc. You cannot trust that anything you have told them in confidence is still in confidence. They'll ha...

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