If I had to ask you to define a victim without a dictionary, what would you say? Something happens to you that is negative or harmful and not of your choosing? Let me ask you this: Would any reasonable or sane person ask to become a victim?

The pertinent dictionary definition is according to the Oxford Dictionary:

A person who has come to feel helpless and passive in the face of misfortune or ill-treatment.

It is the last line of this definition that really jumps out at me. 'Someone who has come to feel helpless and passive'.

Indeed no one deliberately lets things' stuff' happen to them? No one in their right mind would do that right? Right?

Wrong. Narcissistic abuse and trauma bonding lead to this exact set of circumstances to be perpetuated over a...

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