The Friendzone is not a place that a man should be in a woman’s life! Period!

One of my favorite Sauti Sol songs is “Friendzone.” It has very good lyrics and the beat is catchy. But then again, it’s Sauti Sol. 90% of their songs are great.

One day I was listening to Maina Kageni in a matatu. I don’t like Maina Kageni because I think he is too effeminate. It’s not the fact that rumors say that he’s gay or anything. I’m not homophobic.

Anyway, since I was in a matatu and didn’t have the control over the radio, I had no choice but to listen. Many men called and lamented how women, some of them married, kept them in the friend zone interminably, chewing their money, and staying evasive. They later realize...

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